Music is a language—a universal, non-threatening language. In music therapy, we can communicate without using words. For example, I say something to you with my drum, and you respond with your xylophone. This can be an effective way to communicate with children who are non verbal. In our experience, many autistic individuals seem to have a natural affinity for music, and in some cases, even a heightened ability. This makes music a powerful catalyst for connection and development in those with autism.
Research has shown that music is often a strength for autistic individuals. For example, Absolute Pitch (also known as perfect pitch) is more prevalent among autistic individuals. Additionally, studies suggest that music improves social communication skills and auditory-motor connectivity in autistic kiddos. Engaging in musical activities stimulates these connections.
When we combine this with the intrinsic interest most children have in music, we create a recipe for success. Music can be the bridge between a child and the therapist, fostering trust and building a relationship. Through music, we can work on a myriad of developmental skills such as attention, social interaction, communication, and motor coordination—all while engaging the child’s natural interests.
But what about children with auditory sensitivities, like those who need to wear noise-canceling headphones? Parents often ask how music therapy can help when their child is sensitive to sound. Interestingly, many of these parents have observed that their child can bang a drum loudly without issue. How can this be?
When a child strikes a drum, their brain is able to prepare for the sound in advance. Because they are in control of the sound production, their body can adjust. It’s often the random, unexpected sounds in the environment that cause distress, not the sounds they create themselves. In music therapy, repeated exposure to controlled sounds—like cymbals, triangles, or drums—can help reduce auditory defensiveness. Over time, the child becomes more comfortable with louder or higher-frequency sounds.
How can music help improve social and communication skills? Music can be the entry point. As a language of its own, we can meet in the music. Through shared musical experiences, we can practice turn-taking, listening, and non-verbal communication—all essential for social interaction.
Music therapy offers a creative and effective way to connect with autistic individuals. It supports their strengths, respects their unique learning styles, and opens doors to communication and development.